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REBOUND

A rebound hmmm, most teenagers are guilty of this..you leave one relationship..broken,tired,frustrated you feel so starved of love . You are so vulnerable..  looking for the next person who is ready to give the the love and attention you lost and feel you need badly... You find such a person and will start to think you re in love..no you re not cause at that moment you are so vunerable,any kind of attention will do.      Well pardon me let me define what a rebound is so we can get what I am really talking about.The meaning of a rebound according to urban dictionary a rebound is a second best, just some person you use to get over the person you just broke up with. they'll never be enough but they can be an okay distraction.Anybody can fall into this category both men and women,young and old,but mostly women are guilty of this.I am not saying guys aren't guilty too but mostly girls cause they mostly have admirers and male lovers waiting on them... ...

Art of listening

  For every effective and strong relationship there are several ingredients that make them up.Some of which includes understanding, love,care, communication, bonding etc.communication of which is one of the most very important factor in every good relationship. We should learn to communicate with one another effectively and to do that we should cultivate the art of listening.while many people think they are actually listening,they are not.Instead they are hearing,hearing is  all about the words they say and the sound they produce.when you hear you can hardly understand what they are truly saying which causes fustration in many relationships either family , marriage and even friendships.     To cultivate the art of listening is to pay full attention to something or someone. To listen to someone isn’t just about when they are talking,even their actions needs to be listened to.when we actually listen to people we get what they are actually saying and even what th...